Conversations from the Heart

#53 How To Change Other People (Nonviolently, of course)

Yvette Erasmus Season 2 Episode 1

This week's episode is an investigation into working things through in relationship:  with our extended family, our mothers, our daughters, and ourselves.

We explore:

  • 1:18  The dynamics I see in my nieces and nephews repeat the dynamics between my siblings and I get triggered.  How can I help myself and them?
  • 4:12  How to ground observations in micro moments
  • 13:11  I wanted care and I didn't receive it.  How can I talk about this with no accusations?
  • 31:05  A script for sharing what you're needing now
  • 34:00  How do I tell my daughter I long for more acceptance from her?
  • 49:00  How can I support myself as I continue to grow into who I am?

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